1. Respect her

Although she mind be more open-minded and kinky than most of women you know, she also has her certain limits – for example sex ( Yes, surprisingly – oral sex is counted as sex too!), nudity or practices which she doesn’t enjoy that much. Most dommes mention these, even if not – you can be pretty sure that 99% of dominatrices will not let you have sex with you.

If she does sex too, she is certainly not a Mistress, she is probably a prostitute seeking for other sort of clients.

2.   Behave well

Even if she haven’t mentioned any special rules for you, it doesn’t mean, you shouldn’t act like a gentleman – or maybe a gentle slave..

3.  Do not be a time waster

Nowadays everyone is rushing somewhere and being very busy. It can happen very easily, that your plans will change quickly. If that happens, don’t be egocentric – if you were supposed to come to a meeting or session, drop a message or email, do not let the Mistress dress up for you, travel somewhere and wait for you for nothing.

4.   Communicate 

It can be very hard to meet someone for a first time of your life and reveal yourself completely, your fantasies, secret wishes, etc. On the other hand, if you’re willing to have an extraordinary session, there’s nothing better then telling her about it (The best option is to tell her in advance, so she can prepare special clothes or scenarios). If you’re too shy, try to write a brief email at least – if she likes your ideas and accepts, you’re not going to regret!

5.  Keep your thoughts real

Fantasy is amazing thing, but sometimes it can overwhelm the reality. It’s very good to have imagination, for example 24/7 slave relationships, long therm prison, 10 hours long wrestling sessions – but you know what? It is sometimes impossible or it is not safe, consensual, fun or any of these. Unless you do have a real life experience with these, try to focus on things which are truly possible and enjoyable for both sides. It will make the meeting so much more simple and delightful.

6. Contacting her

While you contact her first time – do not say things such as “hi, I want to meet you” or “I want to have session”. Say exactly where do you want to meet, if you desire bdsm, fetish or wrestling, what is your experience, expectations and you can also mention your stats. Dommes and session wrestlers are busy people and do not have time to chit chat.

7. Do not push on bargain

Meeting your favorite model, session wrestler or dominatrix is a luxury, not a right. Do not ask for discounts, especially when you’re not a regular client. It feels unfair sometime – especially when you ask for special clothes for the occasion, have several requests about the session, want to meet at unusual time, and after all you bargain with your Mistress as if she was good an article on market.,